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"Dink" family: different kind of life is also wonderful

- A list of passive Iron Tings

Compared with the active group "Iron Dingzu", the passive group "Iron Dingzu" is more due to the influence or restriction of objective conditions, and chose "Dink" in the end. Their choice is less "active."

Hero: Yuan Zhi Zhi & Li Yicheng

"D" age: 14 years

"Tie Ding" confessed: "Being Tied" no regrets

The original Zhi Zhi and Li Yicheng are all the way to graduate from postgraduate students to postdoctoral scholars. When joining the same foreign academic research group in Germany, this "marine fighter" in the "Learning Machine" naturally came together. The careers of colleges and institutes across the entire period of adolescence, adolescence and pre-male years have caused them to miss out on love and good childbearing times. When they returned from abroad, the two were close to middle age, and the pressure to re-choose, buy, and develop has left them with no time for the "man-made" plan.

“In this way, we missed the family's grandchildren's happiness. We are destined to have something to lose. From childhood to childhood, both of us are envied and taken as examples. Now we can't think of all the good things. In your body, people without a career have to have a great cause of nurturing their children...” said Shiba Chih, calmly speaking, “We are now putting all our energy into work and enjoying life. Sometimes university reunions, Basically, they talked about tweaking their children during the rebellious period. We still feel that we have been lucky. We are 'been iron diced' and quite at ease...” And there is a sort of worldly life in the leisure class, which is not as unassuming as the average middle-aged man with a blessing.

“Tie Ding” said the future: “We went to school and went to study. We basically didn’t stay with our parents. Just when we returned home to start a business, the old people on both sides had to help us! We can see that we have children If you can't be old, maybe you have to grow old! Now you have the ability, but 'the son wants to keep and stay with him,' and the parents are not there... so I still live in the moment, cherish the moment, and I don’t know what the future is.”

The hero: Meng Laiqing couple

"D" age: 17 years

“Tie Ding” confessed: It is better to never have it than to lose it.

Meng Laiqing belongs to early marriage and married at the age of 21. At the time, the economic conditions of the couple were not very good. Therefore, they were deliberating that they should not have children at all. This type of life that was declared to be “Dink” continued until she was 30 years old. At that time, her husband’s career has grown bigger and bigger. It is time to have children.

Can Lai Qing found that with her husband not contraceptive for two years can not pregnant with children. At the age of 33, she was diagnosed by the hospital as completely blocked at both ends of the fallopian tube and could only resort to IVF technology. In the following years, she did not succeed in four tube-cutting operations to spend money and suffer from crimes.

Later, she met a female patient at the hospital's reproductive center. The man said that he once had a son and he died of bone cancer when he was 8 years old. Now when he thinks of it, he still feels a pain in his heart. Then he wants to have another child to “stop hurting”. So, I wanted to try out assisted reproductive technology.

After hearing this, Lai Ching immediately broke the thought of giving birth to children. She said to her husband: “The world is impermanent. If we have had a child at the end of our lives, we have lost it because of the accident. I guess we both have to go crazy. - That little life, which has never happened before, is not terrible, and terrible is to lose it. It is better to confess it, if it is not, then I will not be able to do it. So many years of tricks have adapted to the world of two people, and to do business Well, I really worry that if I add a child and I’m not involved, the child may not be able to live well.Think about the patient’s heart-shaking experience, I’m afraid I can’t afford to be accidental. And in this lifetime, who can guarantee that there’s no accident? "Why does the husband think about it? If you run to forty people, is there anything like "children" that is "outside the body?" Not as good as "Tie Ding".

“Tie Ding” said the future: “From the day we decided to completely give up thinking about childbirth, we will not pay for it. The quality of life and the quality of our feelings are all higher than before. We’ve always thought of leaving some of our offspring behind us. It’s gone now.” With worries, we can also take the time to travel, see what the show is performing, and what we don’t expect from our children, seemingly to be more emotionally sensible, unlike in the past, when we focused on the business and paid little attention to each other. The two treasure each other and live well!"

Whether active or passive, “Tiemen” respect their inner feelings, live their lives seriously, and strive to live a different kind of wonderful life. Who can say that such a life is not perfect?

"Fetal Iron" 6 Features

"Dink" for more than 10 years

Most of them have better academic background

Love life, unique insights into things

Income above average

Strong spending power, no need to save money to children

Often go on holiday

The star in “Tie Ding”

Ge You & He Cong

The old man Ge Cunzhuang had disclosed that his regret was that his son Ge did not give him a grandson (grandchild), but he respected Ge You’s choice. Now Ge You and his wife He Cong have gone through 20 years. According to informed sources, as long as there is no film, Ge You will be at home with his wife, always rushing to do housework. On the 20th anniversary of his wedding, Ge You gave gifts such as villas and RVs to his wife.

Liu Qingyun & Guo Yiming

The couple Liu Qingyun and Guo Yuming, who have been married for more than a decade, said that choosing not to have children is the lifestyle that they chose for their own long-term measurement. They enjoy the current world of two people.

Zhou Runfa & Chen Huilian

Married to his wife Chen Huilian for more than 20 years, Zhou Runfa was still a member of the Iron Clan. However, his reason for choosing not to have children is very special. He believes that “the pressure on Chow Yun-fat’s children must be very high” and does not want the children to bear pressure from their parents during their growth.

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Society's Concerns about "The Iron Clan"

Many people, including some experts, believe that the increase in the number of “Dink” families will inevitably lead to a decline in the quality of the population in our country. At present, “Dink” families are more likely to be found in economically and culturally developed areas and people with high academic qualifications. Therefore, from the point of view of genetics or pedagogy, if this trend continues to develop, it will inevitably be inconsistent with the purpose of “promoting childbirth and childbirth” advocated by our country. In addition, if there are too many "Dink" families, it will also cause an increase in the age of society and will have a negative impact on the development of society as a whole. Some scholars also believe that a complete family structure can help increase the stability of a family. On the contrary, due to the lack of a common experience of raising children, it actually poses greater challenges to the building of feelings between husband and wife.

"Iron Die" Response to Concern

Faced with the uneasiness and suspicion of society's various voice transmissions, most of the “Tie Ding” disdain. Most "Tie Ding" have not regretted their original choice so far. They said that the "Dink family" is just one of the many ways of life; it is a symbol of the awakening of human nature; it is the right of the family to choose independently. What's more, child-rearing "cultivation of the Clan" is, after all, the mainstream, and the choice of the "Dink" family will not bring about much negative impact on the social structure; instead, it will increase the individual's quality of life, the quality of life of the spouses, and bring about social civilization. Positive effect. As an objective reality, people can fully understand this model as an integral part of society. After all, there is a reasonable side.

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